Osho's answer:
When the Buddha returned, becoming enlightened,
his father was very angry, and he said:
"You are crazy, but I forgive you, because I have a father's heart."
Buddha laughed and said:
"First tell me everything you wanted to tell me
these twelve years that I spent away from home."
Probably, you have accumulated a lot of anger - first cleanse yourself of it!
When you throw all the garbage, you can communicate with you.
My father was shocked.
What he says? He did not expect this at all!
For a moment he was silent. The Buddha said:
- Look at me. I'm not the person who left.
I'm a completely different person,
because my inner being has changed.
I was born anew.
I'm not your son anymore.
I am no longer this body and not the mind.
I have reached beyond.
So first throw yourself out of all the rage so that you can see me.
Let your eyes be clear enough to see the change that has taken place in me - a radical change.
The person who has left, has died,
and the person who has come today,
it is absolutely other person - certainly,
in the same continuum.
Therefore, I look like before only from the outside;
inside I'm not at all like before.
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