Ниже как раз то, что я на писал в ответ на пост: (странно что поставил это первым)
Евгений SpiritOne Шерстобитов написал
22 мая 2009 в 8:13
По мне, любовь это то что ты можешь любить РЕАЛЬНО не требую ничего в замен. Это как то "самоэгоистично" ты любишь и тебе от этого Очень хорошо. Даже можно любить на расстоянии и без взаимности, все равно будет хорошо - это любовь, то что "нэльзы потрiгат"
Обычно в замен хочется хорошего секса, ласки, заботы, денег, статуса, веселья(это реже и это ценится сильнее, этого мало) и сами посмотрите на себя и скажите что вы хотите от любимого. - ну скажем в английском лучше - bf/gf = друг определенного пола. Уже не подразумевают что любят, подразумевают что дружат(а дружба между телами заканчивается в удовлетворении их потребностей)
решение простое - любите отдельно, желайте отдельно. Желательно осознавая это. А чтобы это делать, это все осознать надо. Любовь это чувство, так почувствуйте ее!!!
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сам пост:
What is love? When we claim that it's love that we have for someone, are we correct? Something to ponder upon.....
Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caught within your chest?
It isn't love, it's like.
You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am i right?
It isn't love, it's lust.
Are u proud and eager to show them off?
It isn't love, it's luck.
Do you want them because you know that they're there?
It isn't love, it's loneliness.
Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
It isn't love, it's loyalty.
Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?
It isn't love, it's low confidence.
Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don't want to hurt them?
It isn't love, it's pity.
Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?
It' isn't love, it's infatuation.
Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
It isn't love, it's friendship.
Do you tell them everyday they are the only one you think of?
It isn't love, it's a lie.
Are you willing to give them all of your favorite things for their sake?
It isn't love, it's charity.
Now....
Does your heart ache and break when they are sad?
Then it's love.
Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?
Then it's love.
Do their eyes see your heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?
Then it's love.
Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensive mix of pain and relation pulls you close and holds you there?
Then it's love.
DO YOU ACCEPT THEIR FAULTS BECAUSE THEY'RE APART OF WHO THEY ARE?
THEN IT'S LOVE...
Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?
Then it's love.
WOULD YOU ALLOW THEM TO LEAVE YOU, NOT BECAUSE THEY WANT TO BUT BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO?
THEN IT'S LOVE!!!
WOULD YOU GIVE THEM YOUR HEART, YOUR LIFE, YOUR DEATH?
THEN, THAT IS CALLED LOVE!!!!
Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so,why do we love? Why is it all we search for in life? This pain, this agony? Why is it all we long for? This torture, this powerful death of self? Why? The answer is so simple, CAUSE it's....LOVE. It is such an addictive that even people who are not having it, wish to experience and share it with.
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Лёха < malchun > Лобанов написал
17 мая 2009 в 14:53
а по русски эт чё ??? ))))
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Evgeniya JenyaBliss Gorbunova написала
17 мая 2009 в 17:21
Ha-ha-ha )) vozmi slovar i uznaesh )))
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