In our family when someone is ill, all other members of the family usually take care of the sick person.. Get some medications, bring some tea..
It's not something that you would even quistion, it's so normal..

Well, not with Harry. When I am ill, he just does not understand that it might be nice to show me a bit of attention. No he expects me to look after him as usual.

And in fact instead of doing something for me he would expect me do do even more for him, and will not give anything up to make my life a tyny little bit easier. When he picked me up on Wendesday, and we were driving home, I asked him to stop by the shop to get some honey and lemon (my favourite medicine).
It would have taken 10 minutes more, but of course he said "NO" and he told me off. He said I can get it some other time (whereas I was sick at that moment, and not "some other time"). So the next day, when I was feeling very unwell, I had to go and buy my own medications. Harry was at home, but he would never offer to do this for me.

Usually when I am ill, and don't feel like eating, he would force me to cook for him and to eat with him. It happens every time.. and of course yesterday was no different. He just would not leave me along. He keeps asking and asking.. and would follow me around and not let me do anything. So each time I give up.. I really did not feel like cooking, but I helped him to make dinner.
And then I told him that I was not hungry... but he would not let me do anything until I tasted his food. He even delayed putting Yuri to bed, and I gave in, cause I wanted Yuri to sleep on time. So I sat down with him, and had some of the food. I forced myself to eat, as I was not hungry. He asked if it was good, I said "yes", he then insisted that I should eat more.. but I refused.
And then he got extremely angry that I did not eat more... He said: "I cooked for you, and you are refusing to eat my food, what motivation do I have to do anything for you?"

I hate him so much, it's beyond my comprehension. How can somebody be so twisted, he just does not want to understand how other people may feel. And he has to force, and force and force...If there is anything I don't want to do, he would go out of his way to force me to do it... this is sick.
I am so tired of him.

When in the evening I wanted to watch my program on TV, he told me that I pretended that I was sick.. and that in fact I was not ill if I was able to watch TV. As usual he changed channels and harassed me while I was watching it.
He can't do it any other way.

I just can't wait for the moment when this man will be far away from me, and will have no more opportunities to torture me.