First of all, I took my guns and went away to shoot to my club. When I am shooting, I am getting some relax :)I have send her a quite detail message with explanations about my concerns and problems. When I got home, she made some efforts to normalize a situation... Means, that those were kind of efforts :) Well... About a lover... He is not really lover. I am quite sure. He looks like a close friend. It means that they are probaly have some feelings, but as far as I know, they didn't have a sex, for example. It is actually much worse. I woould prefer she has a sex, but not real feelings... Anyway... Now situation has got to normal. I am not sure how long it will be :)