“Next time you are hoping to get to know someone a little better, steer the conversation toward your mutual dislikes instead of what you both enjoy. A Texas tech university study finds that in the early stages of a relationship sharing pet peeves of negative opinions such as deep disdain for Britney Spears can bring people closer together than can mutual passion. Expressing a strong negative opinion is risky but sharing such attitudes can built intimacy quickly because they allow for greater differentiation than do possible attitudes. The payoff is especially strong if people share idiosyncratic opinions.” From “Psychology Today”
что то я в практическую психологию вдарился)