- "Punctuality is the thief of time"
- "Nowadays people know the price of everything, and the value of nothing".
- "Men marry because they are tired; women, because they are curious: both are disappointed".
- "My dear boy, no woman is a genius. Women are a decorative sex. They never have anything to say, but they say it charmingly. Women represent the triumph of matter over mind, just as men represent the triumph of mind over morals".
- "A grande passion in the privilege of people who have nothing to do. That is the one use of the idle classes of a country".
- "My dear boy, the people who love only once in their lives are really the shallow people. What they call their loyality, and their fidelity, I call either the lethargy of custom or their lack of imagination. Faithfulness is to the emotional life what consistency is to the life of the intellect - simply a confession of failure. Faithfulness! I must analyse it someday. The passion for property is in it. There are many things that we would throw away if we were not afraid that others might pick them up".
- "The longer I live, Dorian, the more keenly I feel that whatever was good enough for our fathers is not good enough for us. In art, as in politics, les grandperes ont toujours tort".
- "It is only the sacred things that are worth touching, Dorian".
- "When one is in love, one always begins by deceiving oneself, and one always ends by deceiving others. That is what the world calls a romance".
- "Most people become bankrupt through having invested too heavily in the prose of life. To have ruined oneself over poetry is an honour".
- "There is always something infinitely mean about other people's tragedies".
- "It is personalities, not principles, that move the age".
- "People are very fond of giving away what they need most themselves. It is what I call the depth of generosity".
- "Good artists exist simply in what they make, and consequently are perfectly uninteresting in what they are. A great poet, a really good poet, is the most unpoetical of all creatures. But inferior poets are absolutely fascinating. The worse of their rhymes are, the more picturesque they look".
- "There was animalism i the soul, and the body had its moments of spirituality. The senses could refine, and the intellect could degrade".
- "Experience was of no ethical value. It was merely the name men gave to their mistakes".
- "All that it really demonstrated was that our future would be the same as our past, and that the sin we had done once, and with loathing, we would do many times, and with joy".
- "Women defend themselves by attacking, just as they attack by sudden and strange surrenders".
- "Children begin by loving their parents; as they grow older judge them; sometimes they forgive them".
- "To be in love is to surpass oneself".
- "When poverty creeps in at the door, love flies in through the window".
- "To see him is to worship him, to know him is to trust him".
- "Whenever a man does a thoroughly stupid thing, it is always from the noblest motives".
- "She is better than good - she is beautiful".
- "I never approve, or disapprove, of anything now. It is an absurd attitude to take towards life".
- "I never take any notice of what common people say, and I never interfere with what charming people do. If a personality fascinates me, whatever mode of expression that personality selects is absolutely delightful to me".
- "The real drawback to marriage is that it makes one unselfish. And unselfish people are colourless. They lack individuality. Still, there are certain temperaments that marriage makes more complex. They retain their egotism, and add to it many other egos. They are forced to have more than one life. They become more highly organised, and to be highly organised is, I should fancy, the object of man's existence. Besides, every experience is of value, and, whatever one may say against marriage, it is certainly an experience".
- "The reason we all like to think so well of others is that we are all afraid for ourselves. The basis of optimism is sheer terror. We think that we are generous because we credit our neighbour with the posession of those virtues that are likely to be a benefit to us. We praise the banker that we may overdraw our account, and find good qualities in the highwayman in the hope that he may spare our pockets. I mean everything that I have said".
- "No life is spoiled but one whose growth is arrested".
- "If you want to mar a nature, you have merely to reform it".
- "I have never been so happy. Of course it is sudden: all really delightful things are".
- "Women are wonderfully practical, much more practical than we are. In situations of that kind we often forget to say anything about marriage, and they always remind us".
- "I asked the question for the best reason possible, for the only reason, indeed, that excuses one for asking any question - simple curiosity".
- "I have a theory that it is always the women who propose to us, and not we who propose to the women. Except, of course, in middle-class life. But then the middle classes are not modern".
- "What is marriage? An irrevocable vow. You mock at it for that".
- "Pleasure is the only thing worth having a theory about".
- "Pleasure is Nature's test, her sign of approval. When we are happy we are always good, but when we are good we are not always happy".
- "To be good is to be in harmony with oneself".
- "Discord is to be forced to be in harmony with others. One's own life - that is the important thing. As for the lives of one's neighbours, if one wishes to be a prig or a Puritan, one can flaunt one's moral views about them, but they are not one's concern. Besides, Individualism has really the higher aim. Modern morality consists in accepting the standard of one's age. I consider that for any man of culture to accept the standard of his age is a form of the grossest immorality".
- "The real tragedy of the poor is that they can afford nothing but self-denial. Beautiful sins, like beautiful things, are the privilege of the rich".
- "Medieval art is charming, but medieval emotions are out of date. One can use them in fiction, of course. But then the only things that one can use in fiction are the things that one has ceased to use in fact. Believe me, no civilised man ever regrets a pleasure, and no uncivilised man ever knows what a pleasure is".
- "I know what pleasure is. It is to adore someone".
- "Being adored is a nuisance. Women treat us just as Humanity treats its gods. They worship us, and are always bothering us to do something for them".
- "Whatever they ask for they had first given it to us. They create Love in our natures. They have a right to demang it back".
- "Nothing is ever quite true".
- "Women, as some witty Frenchman once put it, inspire us with the desire to do masterpieces, and always prevent us from carrying them out".
"A cigarette is the perfect type of a perfect pleasure. It is exquisite, and it leaves one unsatisfied. What more can one want?"