i now completely understand abusive relationships...........for some reason i understand now, why women would put up with all this mental and physical abuse just to be with the person they love......i mean it makes sense now....more then it did before.....when i would look at all this and think why in the world would someone subject themselves to this pain and suffering for the good of something virtually nonexistant?? why? i have the answer in my hand now, and i for so long i wished it would have been able to be different from what i thought i might be.....but its not....its love