self-made, dating is fun, but takes so much out of you. :)
I hope that my cat is fine. He's had this tumor removal surgery 3 years ago, and wasn't healing too well(had to be recut and resutured 3 times)...but then he's been purrfectly fine after it had finally healed up. And just days after I left for Russia, he chews out a hole in his belly(the area of previous surgery) that won't close up on its own. Another surgery. It's not cheap, but it's money...you make it, you spend it. And I cannot just put him to sleep when there are still options for him to have a comfortable life. So I understand what you are saying. :)