agreed. and about bf's-get your own, youll understand her better, not that its right to neglect your friends because of your love interests. i have someone here (alex), whos totally mad about his gf, and ignores his friends, interests and uni for her, anything.... he blew 3000 of his life savings on her and has to work like a horse and to live on potatoes in order to go and see her... sigh..... very messed up relationship.