Понедельник, 18 Сентября 2006 г. 13:55
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Do you approve sex without love, just for one/several nights?
Keeping innocence (not only virginity, but Innocence in a broad sence) to your husband... Is it still virtue ?
for me it still is.
I think to be faithful is a very important thing in a relationship.
But sex without love (as I understand love as notion) is quite possible, if you are free (from a obligations of a relationship)... But in this case you must have some affection to the person you gonna have sex with... I don't approve of sex without any feelings...
I like sex and I can't say that I loved every girl of mine.
But still, I was attached to each of them this or that way,
I liked communicating with them and my relations with
most of them are friendly.
So, sex without some relations is not what I like.
I am married and I had no sex with other women since our
wedding. I know my wife's attitude to my fucking around, so
I don't want to hurt her.
Веселинка_Малопопка, well, I wasn't innocent before marriage, and I approve of sex only with some feelings, beginning of love. And I don't see anything bad in such relations, 'cause it was very quickly that we had sex with my husband (who wasn't my husband at that moment) and I don't regret.
I would definitely agree that virginity and innocence are two different things. Sex outside marriage is a vice for it brings lies and betrayal anyway...