I was raised in a marriage of one man and one woman. That's how I was raised and no one can change it. No gay activists, no churches, no vegans, no one. My family is about one man and one woman.
That is precisely the reason why I firmly believe that no one should have a say in who you should or should not marry.
You don't have a say in my family, I don't have a say in yours. Your marriage, your decision. Just do it.