Seduction is all about doing what you want to do. It is not about knowledge. It is not about manipulation. It is not about attaining all that you think you should. Rather more humbly, the true value of being a great seducer - just like playing a sport that you truly love - is that it isn't all about a medal in the Olympics, or about being written down in the history books. It's about loving what you do. The greatest reward is that through doing what you love you can more clearly be who you want to be, and feel how you want to feel. Unfortunately, to many seduction and sex are seen as gossip topics, topics upon which we stroke each others' egos, because we have \"answers to the big questions,\" when it actually is something whose true purpose is both intricate and innate: the reward of freedom.

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