вот вернулась домой и нашла ответ на мое письмо...
"xoroshoe pismo , ochen' priyatno slishat' o tom chto ti lubish menya , no ya znayu chto ti mne nravishsya no tebya ya ne lublyu ... ya pomoemu tebe eto uje govoril paru nedel' nazad...

hmm, slojniy vopros....mne nravitsya sex, no ya dovolno uveren chto i dont love you.....i know that it probably hurts you, no eto pravda. Ya ne mogu sebya zastavit' tebya lubit'. Mojet eto ne pravil'noe vremya, t.k mne nravyatsya kajdie dve nedeli drugie raznie devushki. May be I am not mature enough or may be not ready. I would go out with a girl but I need a feeling of love and I dont have it. Inogda when I sleep with some other girl that I like, the feeling disappers on the next day . It's treaky. But u're a cool girl . I think Andre likes u , the big one lol ... I dont know what to do, dont be mad.... May be stoping sex will make it easier for you. May be we should stop"
вот так и написал, ну ладно я рада что добилась от него какой-то реакции, пусть и не положительной !