This probably won't come as a surprise to you, but almost no guys take the time to think about the thrusting techniques they use during sex. You see, while many men are indeed submissive and love the fantasy of the dominant and strict mistress, more often than not it's actually male chastity they really seek - in other words, they want a woman to control their sexuality, but because male chastity is not too well known, the easiest context for them to frame it in is that of the male slave.
It isn't easy to learn how to control your orgasm and it is even more difficult sometimes to be denied the pleasure of being able to cum. Because of the contrast to all the shallow thrusts she's just experienced she will love the feeling of you going in all the way.





Experiment with different thrusting techniques every time you have sex. One of the things I discovered on my "journey" to becoming a great lover is that the thrusting techniques you use during sex can make the difference between her orgasming 3+ times or her feeling nothing.
And finally, if you can't be bothered with the milking (it all does take time and effort), then a ruined orgasm is an effective way to empty his prostate. And as you keep experimenting you'll discover more and more great thrusting techniques, and eventually you'll have a nice collection of thrusting techniques you can pick from every time you have sex that you know will get her to orgasm.

You see, while many men are indeed submissive and love the fantasy of the dominant and strict mistress, more often than not it's actually male chastity they really seek - in other words, they want a woman to control their sexuality, but because male chastity is not too well known, the easiest context for them to frame it in is that of the male slave.
Everyone is different and makes their own choices, but that said whenever I'm asked by readers of my work "how long is best between orgasms?", I encourage them to aim ultimately for permanent orgasm denial for their man, just as John and I are aiming for it now.

As a woman, I enjoy my multiple orgasms and cannot imagine any pleasure at all in having them delayed or denied to me (and it does feel terribly selfish to take great pleasure in denying my husband's orgasms, knowing he needs to cum but can't until I allow it).
Well, because a strange part of the male chastity or male slave fantasy is your man wants to feel he has no control. Perhaps you're used to masturbating or having sex with your Beloved every night and now, suddenly, strapon pegging you're not permitted to cum. It goes far beyond the emotional charge of having a woman in control - we are talking here about men who quite literally love the feeling of needing to orgasm but not being allowed to.