Whether friend, foe, or family member, I think there is more we need to learn and know about each other. Knowing certain things will help us work together better, understand where each of us is coming from, and to help one and other achieve success. You might even find out that you have more in common with someone than previously thought.

Here are 15 things to know about the people in your life.

1. Know at least one of their life’s goals.

2. Know one of their weaknesses.

3. Know what makes them truly happy.

4. Learn about their childhood.

5. Learn about what they want in the future.

6. Find out what they feel was their biggest failure in life so far.

7. Find out what they do and don’t like about their life.

8. Discover what their dream job has always been.

9. Find out what their favorite book is.

10. Find out something they’ve always want to try, like skydiving or bungee jumping.

11. Find out who they admire.

12. Know what their biggest fear is.

13. Discover why they aren’t pursuing their dreams.

14. Find out where they would live if they could live anywhere.

15. Find out what they thought was the worst day in their life.

There are countless more facts you can learn about the people in your life. Don’t think of it as being nosy, just be sure to share your information as well.