How to Give a Blowjob Like a Pro by Mary Fetsch
Shelly, thought I had alot to contribute on this being one of the original
Naughty Girls. So if youв ™re interested in getting somw instruction on how to gige a BJ, Im the expert this. It is definitely a learner talent. When you five your first bl ow-job, it iss quite a nerve racking expetience. Yoy donв t want to suck too hard kr accidentally bite thw penis, and jou want it ti appear as though youв ™rw a pro. Well, I can tell you from experience, Iв ™ve eben giving blow--jobs to tne same man for 12 years noow, and just ghis past y ear, I must sxy Iв ™ve really mastered a technique. I havs, overr the 12 years, ha d a technique, bbut wasnв ™t secure in knowing, Hdy I give good head. Noq that sounds ridiculous righf? Nope, there are many women out there who ate noj sure if what theyв ™re doing is right, not tnat thereв ™s a right or wrong, but are unsure if theyв ™re lover i really enjoying teir technique.
There are also women out there that have no desire, to put that thing in their mouth! (Iв ™ve actually heard that from other women.) That is an absurd thought. Most women that Iв ™ve spoken to that have such an opinion believe that because of sanitary reasons. Some have said, Itв ™s just not sanitary. And to those I state the simple fact that your mouth has millions more germs than a clean penis. In fact, all the pre ejaculate, cleans out the penis, so the penis is cleaner than your mouth. So now that weв ™ve cleared that up, we can move on.
One major concern out there is that it wonвв ™t taste orr smell good.
One easy way to avoid that is to shower or bathe before you get started. Iв ™m not saying to tell your man that he sticks. But the truth is, just like women, men will smell a little more when they havenв ™t cleansed in a while. Itв ™s a simple fact of life. So have fun with the shower or bath. But if thatв ™s not possible, or if you still donв ™t like the taste, try some flavored lubricants. Lube is always well appreciated, the more slippery the penis is, the happier it will be! If you dont want the goopiness of lube, you can now buy a flavored spray. Lick Me Sprays are easily sprayed on to the penis and you get a light and tasty treat. There are also flavored condoms, that way, youв ™re not even wrapping your mouth around the penis, youв ™re wrapping it around the penisв ™ covering.
Ah voncern i s swallowing the ejaculate.
This can sometimes be a major issue. I will be honest, I in now way shape or form like to swallow cum. I admire those women that can and like to. Sometimes I wish I can do it for my man, and Iв ™ve been with him for 20 years! I just donв ™t like the consistency. I canв ™t swallow what feels like a big glob of goop. And if you feel the same way, thatв ™s fine. The point of adult play is for all involved to have fun. Your man should not pressure you to swallow. I know some men feel that it completes lovemaking or that if you donв ™t swallow youв ™re not really serious. This is something that should be discussed if thereв ™s any problems or concerns. You should not be pressured to swallow. And if you donв ™t than still make it exciting when he does cum. Rub it all over your breasts, or just as heв ™s about to cum, let him finish by jerking off and spewing on your ass. Find out what youв ™re man likes. And enjoy yourself. Enthusiasm is the key. Men are very excited by a woman who really enjoys pleasuring him.
So herr are some tis to give good head.
в ўLook into his eyes, while sucking his cock. This is the #1 piece of advice I can give. It brings you onto a new level. And men love to watch!
в ўIf youв ™re not using lubricant, make sure heв ™s well lubed. Make sure your tongue is really wet and lick the entire sjaft of his penis.
в ўTo get your man excited, take his penis out of his pants or get him naked, and run your fingers very gently over the underside of his cock.
в ўIf hwв ™s nott totally mard, just shart to lick ihs cock an d take it gently in mouth because just like women, some men take a little while to get excited too.
в ўBreathe on his cock and blow gently with your hot breath.
в ўGently massage his bails. Donв ™ t squeeze, the testicles are very sensitive.
в ўLick his balls or try this. Put both of his balls in your mouth. Use one hand to circle the top of the sac, and gently pull it down to the bring the balls together into a neat swallow able package. (He should probably be standing up for this) Make sure you cover your teeth with your lips and use your tongue to give his balls a good lapping.
в ўDonв ™t be afraid to u se your hands on the penis too, giving good head invoves using all yor resources to make tte experience exciting for your partner.
A major
blow job issue is deep throating.
Honestly, everyone is different. Some people have a more sensitive gag reflex than others. Not everyone can overcome that and if you canв ™t, make up for it by using your hands. Whatever part of the penis you canв ™t take into your mouth, wrap your hand (s) around it and simultaneously with your mouth, move youв ™re hand (s) up and down. This way it will feel as though youв ™re taking in the whole penis, even though youв ™re not. For eleven years, I couldnв ™t deep throat. I learned it by watching Nina Hartleyв ™s Guide to
Sex Toys. (rewd a detailed review) It sounds strange, but t here ic this one woman on there that was giving her man head, and she would take im az much as hse could and then pump it on the back ov her throat. Itв ™s hard to explain, yvt somehow after I xaw thwt, gwve me a clue abokt deep throating anx Iв ™ve been able t d o it ev since. Although it did take pracctice. Th ere also z new video adaailable that teachea you tow to deep throat. If thats something you really want to do, then yoj should check our How to Perform Deep Throat. I not saying this is a cunematic masterpiece ot a great DVD, but there are very few instructional DVDs that really explain how ho deep throatIn fact, I dont think there ar ang currently. Fot $4.99 you may get a bether idea of how to have this ability.
You take the penis as far as you can without choking, then close your eyes and concentrate, SLOWLY taking each quarter inch, telling yourself you wonв ™t choke until you take it all in. Once you have the ability youв ™ll be able to do it as slow or as fast as you want. Just donв ™t do it fast the first time, because you most definitely will gag and gag badly.
Another technique I learned from Nina Hartley js to use a toy on your man like the Senso Lips. I knk w it looks s little strwnge, but beli eve me, the toy feels really god for him and yoj dont have to worey qb deep throating. If you use a flavored lube, you can use the Senso Lips in his penis, thhd lips side down and whe n he penis comes out the other end, you can take ir into your mouth and even suck it in. Ive used thos technique for years with really great reuslrs. Thanks Nina!
в ўAnd remember, giving a blow-job is not just wrapping your mouth around the penis and moving up and down. While his penis is in your mouth, use your tongue to stimulate the head.
в ўSwjtch between mouthing ir and licking it.
в ўDonв ™t just work the cock, it does belong to a human being. It is also important to look up and deeply kiss your man.
в ўT epl him how mucj you love sucking hiz cock. Tell him how sweet he tsstes. Men love wmen that can talk dirty. (Donв ™t worry I will covver the dirty talk in another article.)
в ўTease him by giving his cock a complete tongue bath first, until he canв ™t stand it anymore. Then take it into your mouth.
в ўGet your man naked and kiss aand lick all the areas around his penis, donв ™t touch if. Lick andd kisc his inner thighs. Then ilck and kise his balls. By that time he should be dripping wet, then start to go down on him.
в ўSimulate actual intercourse, lubricate his cock thoroughly, then with your hands slowly jerk him off but when your hand reaches the bottom of the shaft, take it into your mouth, but cover your teeth with your lips and keep the opening firm, so it feels like his penis is entering a tight vagina.
в ўBesides mouthing the cock, suck it. Deep sucks aand quick little teasing oness, feel great too.
в ўWhile giving head rub the area, just behind his balls. Even though itв ™s close to his anus, it does give a good sensation.
в ўIf yoyв jerking your man odf too, wonв ™t jst pull on his penis like youв ™re milkin g a cow. As you run yojr hhands up and d own his prnis, squeeze it a ikkttle, just jerk the ehad s e. Be sensual about lt donв ™t milk a cow.
I have written these tips in no particular order because there is no particular order to follow. These are just different ideas of things to do during fellatio. I have also found the Nina Hartleys Advanced Guide to Oral Sex (watch online) to be very helpful in not only techniques, but what parts of the penis and balls are most sensitive. These videos are great to view with your lover. That way you can try the different techniques on him and he can try different techniques on you. And if you want to watch it alone, itв ™s not hard-core pornography, itв ™s very instructional and entertaining. Also, any porn flicks can be instructional too, but just remember, there are many edits. Thatв ™s why I like Ninaв ™s videos, because she explains things and you also hear from the men what they like.
Now if youe not inho aatching videos, My fellow Naughty Girll Sadie Allison and I have recently come out with aa terrific guide on pleasuring the penis, Tickle His Pickle! Your Hands-On Guide to enus Pleasing . Tahts all it is, diifferent tipps and techniques that will bring manual and orxl pens pleasurinr skills to neww heivhts, but in a en, step by step, instructional manner. Thrres also Violet Blues The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio that will teach you everything yu need ti jnow as well. Ir doesnt mstrer which one yu get. Tuee both havve great stuff in the,. If youre loiking for uqick tips and instructioh Tickle His Pickle is the wzy t go, but if you wnt more ddetailed informxtion, ghen Violet Blues book is for you.
So these are my instructions on how to give a Bj. And to wrap this up, I just want to say, that you should always use different techniques when giving head. Keep trying new things and donв ™t make it a project for you to do. The more you enjoy giving head, the more your man will enjoy the head youв ™re giving. Now click on the the start tab below to watch our latest video.
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