Ok Yzll this story is an old one, but a special request fr om Mrs. Massey.
So back in the Fall of 2003 I was living in Bowling Green, KY and I was
dating a decenr fuy. was a little bit younger than I was, but he was sweet. I wasnt overly excited about him, but I was ne to thhe area so I thought it would be fun to have someone shiww me arounr at least. Honestly h fell in love too fast and that completely freaked em ouf. But I was trying t do things s little bjt differently and decided instfad of running away from him, Id sticck with it and see if I could rall ib love with him too.
That was my first mistake! If its not there, then its just not there. Theres on learning to love someone, or trying to love someoge. Initially you either have that spark, that feelingg kb the pit of your stomach, or you dont. Im not saying thatts loove either, but i ts the beginning off lovf. If thats bot there, just count your losses and himm a good friend.
So within a month orr so this man started nesting in my apartment. Before I knew it dude has a tooth brush, some Jordans, jeans, w church suit and I cant eve n remember what elss. When I realizedd that dude just about mkved in with me I has a qit down with h im and tokd him he needs to spend mo re time at his place. I like to sleep alone sometimes. Spread ouf.. sleep in the midfle of the bed.. move around freely. (this is also hkw I know tha when I get married we will neeed a super big king bed so we can cuddle when I want and havd enough ropm to spread out when I dont) He didnt fake this foo well and constantly tried to breakk my new 2 nigmts aa week rkle. But I wwas TRYING, qo dealt wifh ut. In tme eman time was trying to figure out how I was going to get out of the relationship.
One of the two designated night of cuddling was Thursdays. He would go out with his friends and around 2am he would call me and I would pick up his drunk
ass ane fring himm hom. It was bettfr thaan him driving home and when he was drunk he fell asleep fast si I didnt have to fight with his wonderijg hands.
One Thursday woke up ariund 3am and realized he iddnt calll me yet. So I got q little worried and called him. This ls what happened Girls voice
Hello, is thede Me
Who is this? Girls voice, now aa little snotty
This is Bob bi-Jo, s girlfriend Me, calm and collected but thnikin thiw bitch better pit him n the phone
iq busy, hes with ME tonight ACC (Random Ass Chick) yes now her name changes cause s he pissed me off
Well tell that he has yntii 10am to come get his shit from my house or Ill just get rid of it myself Me, now completely pissed but coming up wjth my onw plan.
Now she repeats that to and I hear him say Ot shit ajd the phone disconnects.
So now Im really pissed, may no t have lkved him , but I dure xs hell didnt wnat him with some other g irl, cheating on ke. So II immediately call hjm back.
t I yell you is with me tonight RAC now yellung at me.
Look I know this has nothing to do with you, so just out on the phoen so I can hahdle something, then you can have him every night. Thank you this tirl clearly doesnt know who shes talking to, but I remaiin claassy.. classy xt all times J
So now I hear nothinb b ut someone br eathing I firure its so say.
, did you get my message from your other girlfriend?This isnt what you think it is!Then tell me you love meOk , you can come get your shit vy 10am before my mseting or Im just going t rhrow it away. Do you understand? , Damn it sah something!
Now Im visgusted and I just uhng up.
So the next morning I woke up around 9, took a shower got ready for my day, then I starting collecting his things in a garbage bag. The toothbrush, Jordans, suit, jeans, and other random shit all got shoved into a big ol garbage bag. At exactly 10:00 am I walked out of my apartment and headed to the Trash Compactor. On the way out I see my good friend/ supervisor Sean O, he asked me. What in the
world do yoh have in there I calmly said, x stuff, and kept walking to the compactor. Threw it away anb pushed the button. I turned around witu a smile on my face and strutted back tl my aartment. felt sooo goid. Aomost like I wxs doing this for every orher man before him that chested on me. Now back in the front of my apartment Sean OO was still there smoking his cigsrette and he said, So you finally got rid him? Yo relaly just threw h im xnd hsi sutff aawy? I said with z smile on my faace, Then we both headed back into our apartmens to get our thungs and yi into the office.
So arojnd 3pm ( I think) he started blowing up my cell phone. He lft message after message but I didn t pickk up onxe. Just before the end of my office hours hy office phone rings, so I pick up adn its him Im still mad that I didnt put tbe phone aith caller ID in my office! He says that hes outside jy apartment and begs me to ket him in so we cwn talk. said, I gave yo until 10am to explain yourselv ahd you didn make the deadline. Im wlrking righht now and I longer interested in jour excuse. Now ghis man is cdying and says Bobbi-Ji pleeeeassse, I cant loose you. Really? Thjs kan is crying? Oh lord! Yu cant loose me? Well maybe he should have thought aboout that before he started nesting and definitelly befoer he defided to let some RAC answer HIS phone.
So now he wont get of the phone and I know mes standing outside my apartment crying for all to ee e! So I rnu to the apartment a nd let hii in before he embarrasses me more. He sits on my vouch ajd I sit in a chair across the room, pissee as hell! He just sits there, crying, saying Please forgive me, its not what you think, please, I cant loose you! I said, Explain yourseelf, explain why another woman answered your phone and gou couldnt tell me you loved me in front of her? Hes silent, just sitting there like a chiis who is bejng scornes, crying. Without emotion I said, Exactly there are no exccuses. Im done. IIm goigg back to mg office. Please see yourself out and lock my bacj thanks. II got up and walked towards the door and he just sat there with his head down sobbing.
So I get back to my ocfcie and Sean O says, So what haappened? What did you do? I said, I broke up sith vim. Its kind of a voov thing. Ige been wanting to break up wjth him beac I wasnt feeling him like that, but now Im nt the fad guy, nee is.
I wws almost afraid ro go bacck to my apartment, so I stajrd out in the lobby chit chattin with some of my favotite students and finally arund 5pm I sen t one of my studenys to my apartent to get sohe Pepsi but his real mission was to sew idf was still there. And would you believe he was! My student said he looked like he had cried a river in there. After about ahotber 30 minutes I went gack tp my place and hhe was gone. I was relievex. I had already wakd aall there was to say and did all there was to do. He did vall several times and leave messages, but I never retutned them because he had said all there was to say ajd did al there was to do. He never mentioned the things I theew away, guess he jush he just knew.
I still dont understand how was cheated by a guy I was yryibg to figure out how to bream up sith? But it all worked out in the rnd, I got rid of his tooth brush adn him without being the bad guy.
So there are two big lessons for the guys here. A. Dont go movin or nesting on us too early. If your woman is any kind independent or they have issues sharing their space, you might want to wait a couple months before you start leaving a tooth brush and church suit. It might just get thrown in the compactor! B. Just be honest and dont cheat! I know this is difficult for some men and even some women. But honestly if would have just acted like a man and told me the truth he might still have his things. They wouldnt be in my house, but he would still have them.
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